“Love does not come from us it comes through us”
Today I am going to talk on a big topic. I think it is the most important and common topic of discussion among humans. But still, the answer is not clear. What is love? I truly believe there isn’t a more important conservation than this. The most important conversation we have as a human being. The way the creator designed us is love. Our most powerful motivator is love. It’s the love of wealth and the love for status. If we love the wrong things in the wrong way we can actually destroy the world. This is a very deeply important topic what love actually is.
ALLAH created different kinds of love. To understand let’s say ALLAH created different sections within our heart. Each section is created for the specific kind of love. Everything is fine if you keep the proper love in a proper section. The innermost central part of the heart is designed only for the love of God. Even if you put your spouse, money, status, children or a career in this central part that is saved for God you actually be destroyed. That you will have to bear a lot of pain. God did not create the human heart to have the capacity to contain anything else in that part except God. If a mother saves the love of her son in that part, she definitely has to bear a high level of pain at any stage of life. All the problems started from here and that is the reason behind a ‘Saas and Bahu conflict’. Love everything in life. Love your money love your children, your friends, status, education but not more than the love for God.
“Love is the state of absolute fearlessness”
There is no concept of separation in love. The actuality of love is impossible, where there is a perception of ‘Two’. You might have a relation, attachment but no love. We as a person have psychological, emotional and physical needs. We name these needs as love. Love exists where the needs are insignificant. You truly love if you can transcend your understandings.
Nowadays it seems like we all are lovers, somehow have fallen in love or got betrayed but the truth is we even don’t know the meaning of love. We are disloyal to ourselves how can we be loyal and honest to others? A year ago, a person loved someone and after two years the same person has fallen for someone else. This is not love. You will never find love outer you. If you love a person there must be a selfish motive. You are loving and finding love to make yourself happy and satisfied. We depend on others and where there is a dependency, love cannot exist because there might be a lot of fear. Love is not a pleasure or emotion it’s a state of fulfillment that will never end.
“You need to dive underneath within you”
When you feel down in any relationship you think that the world is not a good place to live. I don’t want to be in this world like this. I really don’t want to be in this life. Then you just need to low down the traffic of thoughts in your mind. You need to dive underneath within you. When you dive into an ocean everything else becomes quite. There is a layer of emotion that is out of fear. This is Love. There is no fear of losing something. Imagine if we do not own anything selfish inside us, then, can we love someone truly?
Author: Tehrema Khalid